My sexuality was shamed throughout my upbringing, and into young adulthood. This left me feeling uneasy when making sexual decisions, in fear that I would be judged or shamed further. I did not have the tools to navigate through the sexual shame that came from these experiences so I began to study in hopes that in the pursuit of knowledge, I would be able to move through my intrusive thoughts and negative emotions.
In my undergraduate career at Rutgers University I studied human sexuality studies.
During my time in school, I had a hunger for curiosity, and constantly sought out new worlds of sex positive spaces, and sexual experiences. This is when I was introduced to kink and alternative lifestyles. These experiences aided me in regaining my sexual power and working through my own shame around my sexuality.
I spent time working as a sex education teacher at the Masakhane Center in Newark, NJ, facilitating sex positive, youth driven workshops for grades 7-12. Through this experience I learned how important education was to unlearning sexual shame. It was then that I decided to begin my own journey as a sex educator and pleasure coach.
By merging my educational background, and personal experience, I have learned how to cultivate power through sexual exploration and have decided to create a space for others to do the same. Come explore with me.
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